When
it comes to sex, "Am I big enough?" has to be
the
oldest question
men ask themselves in the privacy of their own mind. And most of them
answer the question the wrong way. You see, men always tend to compare
themselves with other people. This always leads to doubts and questions
about the size of their penises and performance adequacy. Many men go
to ridiculous lengths to offset what they perceive as a shortcoming on
their side.
This kind of behaviour is very common. Nearly every man asks himself
the "Size Question" and since men are too afraid of the answer to ask
the question directly, they never get a satisfactory answer to it. This
fear of being too small may grow to become a serious problem for some
men. It's a blight upon their confidence and it may drive them to do
silly things. It's a shame that some men find nothing better to do with
their time and efforts than to prove to themselves and to the world
that they don't have small penises.
The average penis size is 5.5 to 6 inches. And since most men have this
size and still think themselves below average, it follows that men are
not very good at judging their own size. Actually, if you start asking
men about the size of their penises, you can be certain that most men
would give themselves an extra inch or two, just to come across as
really hung guys. And the worst part of all this is the fact that most
women care more about the quality and intensity of sex and less about
the size of the man's penis. A bigger organ may look impressive, but if
it's too big to fit comfortably inside the vagina or if the owner is
clueless in bed, then all those inches are wasted.
Women are looking for other things aside from a big penis. It's not
that having 7 or 8 inches doesn't help at all. Women like to eye men
before getting into anything serious and a sizeable bulge in the pants
scores points with them, but penis size it's really just an item on the
check list for most women. Something akin to: "Penis size check - done.
Now let's move on to something truly important". Studies and polls have
conclusively shown that women are far more interested in partners with
good hygiene habits and who know how to bring them to orgasm, big penis
or no big penis.
If
you're and average-sized guy and not content with your size, there
are a few tricks to making your penis look bigger. The actual penis
size can be hidden by the pubic hair. So, if you think you could profit
from this, trim your pubic hair. Or you could lose some weight. The pad
of fat located at the base of the penis can grow in size along with the
overall body fat and may obscure the base of the penis. Losing weight
would decrease the pad and bring back the hidden inches. A simple trick
is to have a hot shower before sex. The hot water would help fill the
penis with blood and make it hang heavier than normal.
Still, the easiest thing you could do is to have an honest talk with
your partner and find out if your penis is adequate in size or if your
partner actually cares about this. More often than not, an honest talk
is likely to bring up other issues than penis size. That should be the
least of your worries.
